I want them to see the dysfunction of how their attitude of negativity can affect others as well as what happens in their life.
I want so much for them to shift into that Victor mentality, and assume responsibility for what happens in their life instead of blaming outside circumstances and people.
Ultimately, all I can do is send love and remember to use a technique I learned from Dr Joe Vitalie on Ho’oponopono https://www.laughteronlineuniversity.com/hooponopono-4-simple-steps/
The experience I had with using this technique was amazing! I was able to shift the energy of the other person, and say, “Let us start over.” I gave big hugs and got on with the day as the energy shifted more positively.
We can offer love and compassion for what they may be going through and at a very deep level that we may not understand.
Hurt people hurt people!! It was very important for me to not lash out with the same energy, as that helps no one. We can give it the best we can do, and be the person we want to become. Namaste!